It smelled like Spring in Wild & Wonderful WV yesterday! Mmmm, delicious! So, we packed the kid up, picked up some of Jacob's delicious Spaghetti & headed up the hill for a picnic.
Hope your week is as fabulous as our Sunday!
Hope your week is as fabulous as our Sunday!
Since receiving Dr. Lori's awesome, fantabulous, world-changing bedtime & sleep-the-night advice, Alexander has, you guessed it, gone to sleep willingly (in less than 15 minutes) and slept the night thru in his own bed. (Well, until this week's terrible cough-a-thon).
To make this miracle happen, we've been working to cut the babe's naptime out entirely. A napless day isn't Mama's favorite kinds of day, but it is Mama's favorite kind of night. In bed & passed out by 8 (or earlier). Whoa-hoo! And Mama gets a whopping 2 hours of time to read, blog, clean, craft or veg in front of the TV. Sweet!
Anyway, without the opportunity to sleep in the house during the day, the kid has taken a special liking to the back seat of Mama's car. Now, every time we turn onto "H" Street to come down the hill toward the house, the boy starts insisting, "I stay here. I stay here, car." Yeah, my child prefers hangin' in Mama's messy car than in Mama's messy house. Not good...
And now Mama is sitting on the couch listening to the kiddo cough in his sleep. Poor little monkey.
Everyone say a prayer.
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Bernie and Carol Smith of Carlisle have been together in the hair-cutting business for more than 30 years.
Time, Bernie Smith said, "squirts right by," so much that two children have turned into five grandchildren, numerous side jobs have combined into one family business, and modest beginnings have made way for well-established community ties.
As Carol Smith summed it up, "Life is good."
Independent
Earlier this month, the clipper-wielding couple celebrated 30 years since the opening of their joint venture - The Hairsmiths Barbershop - which sits in the converted garage of their Carlisle home, across from the fairgrounds on Spring Road.
"I think its because we were determined, that we've been able to stay in business 30 years," Carol Smith explained. "He does his thing, I do my thing, and it's not like we're working together."
Continuing with a laugh, she added, "It's not like I'm the doctor and he's the nurse ... ‘I need more gauze. You didn't do it right.' He works independent and I work independent and I think that helps us."
Despite its success over the years, a barbershop wasn't always on the horizon for the high school sweethearts.
"When I was in high school, I would've never guessed I'd be a barber," Bernie Smith admitted. "In high school I thought I was going to be a teacher ... but that plan changed."
Beginnings
By 1980, the Smiths found themselves married and living the military life with their two young children.
"I was looking for something independent," Bernie Smith recalled of the decision to go into business with his wife. "I was a medic in the Army and it was either this or go through six years of medical school. This was a lot easier."
According to Carol Smith, "We thought we needed to transition into civilian life easily, and barber school was nine months full-time. So he was still in the Army and he started barber school."
By day, Bernie Smith studied his craft at barber school. By night though, he returned to work at the health clinic at the Army War College.
With a college background in math, Carol Smith initially intended to do the books for her husband's barbershop business.
That would soon change, though, with both Smiths finding themselves enrolled in barber school before the year's end.
"I thought, (doing the books) might not be enough," Carol Smith said. "Bernie had been in barber school three months and I decided to start barber school too."
Gamble
Upon receiving their respective degrees, "Our first jobs were over at the post barbershop," Carol Smith noted. "Bernie was still in the Army, and we had part-time jobs."
Soon enough, the Smiths would begin the search for a location of their own.
"Bernie's idea was to have the shop attached to the house," Carol Smith explained. "We found this house ... we asked the realtor to show it to us and she said we couldn't afford it. So then we asked again and she said ‘No, you can't afford that."
Undeterred, the Smiths pressed on.
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"We thought, well, this is a good location," Carol Smith recalled, explaining that from there, a feasibility study was done and submitted to the former Carlisle Building and Loan. "They gambled on us and it worked. So we're very appreciative that the bank thought that we could succeed."
On Thanksgiving Day 1980, the Smiths moved into their new home. Almost immediately, work began on the attached garage that would soon be transformed into their barbershop.
Nearly three months later, on Feb. 4, 1981, The Hairsmiths Barbershop opened its doors for business.
‘Partners'
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Carol Smith, left, gives a perm to Barb Ocker of Carlisle as Bernie Smith looks on.
Since then, the husband and wife team has worked side by side, both in business and in life.
"We've been pretty lucky that we love each other, and we've been partners since we were married," Bernie Smith said. "I think that's the biggest thing that got us through ... because we're partners, and we cover each others backs," Bernie Smith said.
Added Carol Smith, "We were determined in the beginning that we were going to be successful somehow, and if that meant working elsewhere, we would."
And so they did.
During the early years of the shop, Bernie Smith took a job at the neighboring Getty gas station to pay the mortgage while the couple worked to build their customer base.
"When we first started out, it was nice with a 3-year-old and a 5-year-old. We could work around their schedules," Bernie Smith said. "They were the most important parts of our lives ... our children. That's why we wanted to be independent. So we could spend times with the kids."
Convenience
Three decades later, it's clear that the bank's gamble has paid off for the Smiths.
"It's worked out. Our kids ... they don't hate us," Bernie Smith said with a laugh. "And our commute is the best in the country ... especially with the price of gas the way it is."